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By Jordan Magnusson· Updated
The Handy review: a smart stroker that syncs with what you watch
The Handy is one of the best-selling smart sex toys for men, and for good reason. It does the stroking for you, lets you fine-tune exactly how, and can sync its motion with videos, VR scenes and interactive content in real time.
Our verdict
- Rating: 4 out of 5, and our best-value stroker.
- Best for: anyone who wants a hands-free stroker that syncs with content.
- Watch out for: a short learning curve while you set up the app and connections.
What is The Handy?
The Handy is a fully automatic stroker. A brushless motor moves the sleeve up and down for you, so you can lie back and let the device take over. You decide how fast it goes and how long each stroke is, so the experience can be tuned to exactly what you like.
The original Handy, which this review covers, runs on mains power. That means there is no battery to charge and no limit on how long a session lasts. There is also a newer Handy 2, which can run on mains power or on its own battery and costs more.
How does The Handy work?
Fit your favorite sleeve, switch the device on and let it do the work. You can control it with the buttons on the device, from the app, or by connecting it to interactive content, in which case the stroke follows the action on screen.
Key features
- Speed and stroke length: from 10 to 600 strokes a minute, with a stroke length you can set anywhere up to 110 mm.
- Video sync: syncs with interactive video in both 2D and VR, so you feel the motion in real time.
- Remote play: connects over Wi-Fi and Bluetooth, so a partner can control it from anywhere.
- Wide choice of sleeves: the adjustable TrueGrip fits most sleeves, including non-Handy ones. Very large, heavy sleeves put extra strain on the motor.
- Open API: developers and content sites can build their own integrations.
- Privacy: no account is needed to use it.
- Warranty: one year on the motor, gears and electronics.
Why choose The Handy?
If you want a high-quality stroker that does more than move up and down, The Handy is the one to beat. It pairs a strong motor with precise controls and the widest range of connected content we have seen. If you want a longer stroke and a battery, look at the newer Handy 2 Pro instead. At about 60 dB at full speed it is not silent, so keep that in mind if you share walls.
Where can you buy The Handy?
The Handy is sold through the manufacturer’s own website. Use the button below to see the current price and offers.
Frequently asked questions
Does The Handy feel realistic?
Yes. The Handy is designed to recreate the sensation of real sex, and with the right sleeve and settings it feels very lifelike.
Can I use The Handy hands-free?
Yes. The device does all the stroking, so you can relax and enjoy the experience.
Will The Handy fit me?
The Handy works with a wide range of sleeves, including many from other brands, so most users can find a fit that suits them.
How long does the battery last?
The original Handy has no battery. It runs on mains power, so a session can last as long as you like. If you want to go cordless, the Handy 2 has a built-in battery.
Does The Handy come with a warranty?
Yes. The motor, gears and electronics are covered for one year. The sleeve and the TrueGrip band are not covered.
Is The Handy easy to control?
Yes. You can set the speed and stroke length from the device or the app, which makes it easy to create an experience tailored to you.